Eight ways to make and set goals that work!

Excerpt from Donadio’s most requested keynote, “Belief-Driven Success”

So far we have talked about (see previous postings):

1. Start at the END!
2. Write down your goals.

Here is the next step:

3. Set realistic yet challenging goals. Set yourself up to succeed. This builds your confidence. To say you want to triple your income in the first quarter might be an unrealistic goal. Unrealistic goals can cause you to lose motivation. Be challenging yet kind to yourself.

Come back... next time I am going to talk about a step most people forget!

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