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"Stuffing Envelopes" is good for business?

I was asked recently to help stuff envelopes at church for a special mailing we were doing for our "Media Council".

Well my first thought was, "Who me stuff envelopes? I have a list of To-Do's on my ACT© program that I have been snoozing...." I hadn't stuffed envelopes in 30 years (except when I was broke in my first year of business when I tried a direct mail campaign to try to get some clients and some cash!)

Well I went down to the church and spent two hours “stuffing envelopes”. It really wasn't that bad. I had a chance to talk with committees members I had been too busy talk to and found the work rather relaxing.

When I returned to my office I had many phone message and e-mails (more “To-Do’s" for my ACT© program). However, I had a few surprises: a message from a national client who said they were considering me for a slot at their next conference in New Orleans; an e-mail from a former, very satisfied, coaching client who was recently promoted to division President. He was referring me to coach another VP at his company.

I knew that by giving to others you receive... I just didn't expect results so quickly.

Something happens when you make room in your life for it. Do you have some envelopes to stuff (metaphorically)? Something you could do for someone else? Has someone asked for your help recently and you thought "I have too much to do"?

Start “stuffing”... Consider getting out this week and doing something different and/or doing something for someone else. Who knows it could shift your world?

Believe in yourself!

Patrick

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